Leaving JERRY FALWELL: An Interview with Marc Adams
 
Part Two of a Three Part Interview
 
RG:  It seems that your spiritual journey has become deeply personal.
 
Marc Adams:  It has.
 
RG:  Is this something you embarked on alone?
 
Marc Adams:  I guess so.  I didn't really go through my own process with anyone else.  And, I guess that's why it's so personal and why it's such a big part of (lost)Found.  I guess in hindsight the process to get where I am today was quite painful.  During the process, however, all I felt was the need to evolve and more forward with my life and journey.  That's why it's down on paper.  No one should feel alone when they are escaping fundamentalist Christianity.
 
RG:  Tell me more about the dogs.
 
Marc Adams:  Goofy and Rufus are long-haired Chihuahuas.  We found them at the animal shelter in Seattle.  We initially just went to the shelter to check things out and if we did find a small dog, perhaps we could consider adopting.  But then, they were there together and now they are here together.  They are very weird, loving dogs.  They are both seniors and have very few teeth.  But they have definitely changed the spectrum of my life.  As we travel around the country, they also are a great addition to my presentation. 
 
RG: How are things with HeartStrong?  Most people reading this don't know about your involvement with this organization.
 
Marc Adams:  Well, then, I will start at the beginning.  Three of us founded HeartStrong over eight years ago.  It is a national non profit organization.  After The Preacher's Son came out, I started getting emails and letter from people saying they couldn't believe that someone was out in public talking about what it was like to be gay, go through religious schools and what those schools have the freedom to do to GLBT students.  The people writing to me were themselves students at religious schools looking for someone who could speak their language to help them in their journey to self-acceptance.
 
RG:  Did you do that?  Look for someone to help you when you were going through it?
 
Marc Adams:  Yes, right when I left Liberty University (Jerry Falwell's university).  But I couldn't find anyone who I felt could speak my language and really understand what I was going through.  So, when these students started contacting me, I realized that I had a responsibility to turn around and face the burning building I had escaped from and go back.  I felt that I needed to go back and rescue as many people as I could.
 
RG:  Why do GLBT students at religious schools need to be rescued?
 
Marc Adams:  In our country and most other countries around the world, it is legal for religious schools to persecute GLBT students attending their schools.  That persecution involves everything from expulsions to reparative therapy to electroshock therapy and public outings.  It's horrific.
 
RG:  And HeartStrong provides support?
 
Marc Adams:  Yes.  Most of the students we help are in crisis situations where they are being expelled, punished, outed or worse.  Our goal is to provide support for these students and make sure that they choose life both emotionally and physically.
 
RG:  Is it working?
 
Marc Adams:  YES!  In eight years we have helped more than 860 students from these schools.  That's a big number for us since we are an all volunteer organization with limited resources.  But it is also a small number because there are hundreds of thousands of more who need to hear our message.
 
RG:  www.heartstrong.org is the website for the non profit right?
 
Marc Adams:  Yes, there is a lot of information there about the work and people can find out more information as well as make tax deductible donations there.
 
RG:  Your title with HeartStrong?
 
Marc Adams:  Volunteer  Executive Director. No one gets paid to do this work.  We still are unable to get in enough money each year to reach our budgets.
 
RG:  So HeartStrong needs financial help.
 
Marc Adams:  Most definitely. 
 
RG:  I want to go back and talk some more about your family.  You've written quite a bit about them in (lost)Found.
 
Marc Adams:  You mean my biological family?
 
RG:  Yes, those people.
 
Marc Adams:  I like to make a clear distinction. 
 
In part three of this interview, Marc Adams talks more about his family and learning how to love.  Return to part one.